Stop Shifting Through The Endless Jerks And Let Me Match You With Mr. Right!
Dear Ms. I Can’t Find a Single Decent Man in Miami,
Look, I can agree that there are not a tremendous amount of good men in the city of Miami, but there are many of them whom I personally met and coached. But in reality, the reason why you are still single is not because men are jerks… but because
THERE ARE, HOWEVER, SOME RULES I ALWAYS FOLLOW
As a teenager, I watched my older sister make mistake after mistake when we were growing up, not to mention every single pretty girl I ever had a crush on. I got pretty good at watching the patterns and behaviors of bad boyfriends. Not just with my sister but with my friends. I saw how my sister and my female friends suffered. I wondered why they kept going back to them!
I realized it was because these bad boys were masculine and stimulating. They weren’t pushovers like all the nice guys that chased them. The problem is that these bad boys were players and emotionally unavailable. They weren’t looking to settle down. They had no idea how to keep a successful relationship even when they genuinely liked my sister or my girl friends. Another huge problem is that all the guys who were considered “great catches” were either taken or gay.
Now that we are all grown up, it seems women are in the same situation, but worse. However, what women don’t understand is that there are great catches out there looking for a great woman like yourself. They are everywhere actually. You just have to know how to find and screen them. You don’t have to choose between the abusive bad boy or the boring nice guy!
MEN SCREENING RULES
1. OPPOSITES MAY ATTRACT BUT VALUES CANNOT BE COMPROMISED.
Men, much more so than women, do not change. Change takes a lot of dedication and sacrifice and most people, particularly men, are unwilling to put in the effort. No, your love will not change him. You should have learned that lesson long ago with your ex boyfriend! If you want children, but your man does not, it will never work out. If you are the type to save money and your man is a spendthrift, you will have a lot of tension financially. If you enjoy outdoor activities, but your man is more of a homebody, you will grow very bored of him. These are basic examples of what I am trying to get across, because it goes way deeper… If you see yourself as a modern woman and want a man who you feel is an equal, you will have constant fights with a man who is old fashioned, conservative, and idealistic. You will constantly upset him over your “domineering and controlling” ideas of equality, sharing of responsibilities, and he will upset you because he won’t be happy. He wants you to fill a support role in the relationship. Did I lose you on that one? Don’t worry about it. It’s my job to understand these things and find you a match. Not you, right?.
2. CHEMISTRY AND LONG TERM COMPATIBILITY ARE NOT THE SAME THING.
A skilled matchmaker must balance attraction with long term compatibility. Just because you feel like you are in love with someone when you first meet them doesn’t mean you won’t be tearing your hair out after 6 months with him. Oftentimes what we respond to sexually is not what is good for us in the long run. It’s kind of like eating a double fudge chocolate chip cookie cake. It looks, smells, feels and tastes so good… but if you ate it every day, it will kill you.
3. YOU NEED TO BE YOUR BEST, CONFIDENT, HONEST, OPEN SELF WHEN YOU MEET YOUR MATCH OR YOU WILL LOSE HIM FOREVER.
Oftentimes, when a woman meets a man she likes, she feels she has to play games or behave according to some rules she read in a magazine or book. This immediately puts men off, and just as quickly, removes you from the potential girlfriend category in his mind.
How To Get Started
QUESTIONNAIRE
Complete your questionnaire first so I can get some basic information about you to get started. You can find the Questionnaire online here
INITIAL CALL
After you finish your questionnaire, give me a call! Your initial session will take place on the phone with me. Call me at the number below or shoot me a message
PERSONALIZED PACKAGE
My boutique style matchmaking service is uniquely personal and catered to you. I will personally be working for you.
LIMITED SPACE
Due to the intense amount of personalized work I do for my matchmaking clients, I can only take a limited number of people each year and I take on even fewer female clients
IN-PERSON SESSION
This session will be all about you and getting to know you on a very deep level. We will discuss topics like your dating history, previous relationships, mistakes, learning experiences and what you ultimately want in a man.
ASSESSMENT
By the end of our first meetings, we will know exactly what kind of man you need and I can go about finding him as well providing support so you are as attractive as possible to that kind of man.
I will help you discover and bring to life your Personal style to empower you— having you feel more confident and nice. From the very first glance, your own style will capture attention and make a lasting impression.
