Invincible inner game is achievable with the right mindsets. Most men have the wrong kind of mindsets. They say to themselves, œWomen find me unattractive, I'm afraid of bothering women if I approach them, or I take rejection personally. If you constantly say these things to yourself or worry about them, they become truer in your mind. Instead of obsessing over negative thoughts, you must practice thinking positively. In order to achieve invincible inner game that attracts women naturally and effortlessly, you must incorporate powerful positive mindsets and beliefs. Here are a few mindsets with which you should work on incorporating into your inner game, lifestyle, and identity.
1. Abundance Mentality “ This is the belief that there are many fish in the sea. If you ever find yourself obsessing over one particular woman, remember that there are hundreds of women who are as great as she is and thousands that are better. There will always be other women, so never place too much importance on any one particular woman you just met.
2. Failures Are Learning Experiences “ There are no failures. Each set back is a successful learning experience from which you can grow from. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Remember, Thomas Edison failed thousands of times before he created the light bulb. Never get discouraged when things don't go your way, this is the model all successful people follow.
3. Dating is a Game “ Many people take themselves and their lives too seriously. Dating is supposed to be fun, not feel like pulling teeth. If you ever find yourself getting worked up or upset over your dating life, try to take it easy and remember that you're supposed to be having fun. When you go out to meet women and feel intense approach anxiety, remember that dating is just a game, not life or death. The best way to incorporate these beliefs for invincible inner game is to practice them as often as possible. For example, if you want to practice abundance mentality, stop talking to a woman who is rude to you. No matter how beautiful a woman is, you will never put up with disrespect because there are many other women out there. If you want to practice the belief that failures are learning experiences, you can go out to a club or bar and experiment. You may wind up getting rejected by several women, but your focus was to learn something, not get approval from women. Finally, if you want to practice the mindset that dating is a game, you could go out with a friend and have a competition. Whoever approaches the most women by the end of the night gets to have a free dinner paid for by the loser. To learn more about how to get invincible inner game, check out my in-field dating coaching for men.
Your Matchmaker and Dating Coach,
Dan Silverman
