It can be hard to get a guy to notice you by approaching him at a party or work. Society tells us that women are not supposed to approach men first and it is really unfortunate that most women follow this unwritten rule. However, this doesn't mean that you are powerless to go after the guy you want and get a guy to notice you. There are many ways you can overcome this societal barrier and get a guy to notice you with a little bit of strategy. One way to get a guy to notice you is to have a friend of yours introduce you two. This is especially useful if your friend knows the guy. It wasn't you who did the approach, it just happened and now that you two know each other. You can approach him in the future because you are now acquaintances. But what if no one knows the guy? How then would you get a guy to notice you? Let's say that it's at a club and you are with friends. The most important thing to do to get a guy to notice you at a club is to make yourself available. Most men don't want to face rejection or risk creating a big scene. If you are surrounded by a bunch of your male friends, he may think you're with one of them and won't want to disrespect a possible boyfriend. Even if you are just with women, he may not want to feel like he is bothering you since you are out with just the girls. This is a reason why it feels like only jerks approach you, since they don't have this desire to be respectful. Go take bathroom breaks or go to the bar where the path is conveniently near him. Make eye contact with him and smile to indicate that you are interested. If he has great taste in women and has the confidence, he will approach you on your way back. If you make eye contact with him more than twice and he still won't approach you, either he is gay or is not man enough to talk to you and isn't what you are looking for in the first place. Another great way to get a guy to notice you is to directly approach a guy and ask him to take a picture of you and your friends. You can even joke around and have him take pictures with you. Have your friends talk to his buddies while you two talk and get to know each other. However, the best wingman to help you meet men and train you in field on how to talk to guys is a bonafide dating coach like myself. I have years of experience helping people socialize with strangers. Consider hiring me as your dating coach and we can have nights full of talking to every attractive guy in the place!
Your Matchmaker and Dating Coach,
Dan Silverman
