The Nice Guy and the Jerk
Are you sick of having to choose between the same types of guys? On the far left end, you have the lovable loser ‘nice guy’ You know, the one that…
Dating Advice Blog
What Women Want in a Man
Do you know what women want in a man? It can be ridiculously confusing since most women say what women want in a man is exactly the opposite of what…
Stop Negative Thinking
Oftentimes, the only one getting in the way of successful relationships is ourselves. Negative thinking affects us all. For example, you may believe some of the following: ” I’m not…
Screen Women
Most men, even players who are good with women, don’t qualify or screen women to meet any kind of standards other than physical attractiveness. It’s important to screen women to…
What Women Like in Men
There are so many things in what women like in men, that the list could go on forever. When figuring out what’s most important in what women like in men,…
How to Reframe a Limiting Belief
During your path to success at dating, you will endure a serious growing pain called a limiting belief. It is unavoidable, but as long as you don’t let a limiting…
Creating Connection
Once you have a woman attracted to you, it’s often not enough to get her to see you again. By not creating connection, she will just see you as the…
Steve’s Transformation
The following is a case study of a former student of mine who did dating coaching with me in 2009. This is Steve’s story: Steve’s Transformation: It all started when…
Inner Game Tips: How to Develop Confidence with Women
If you are looking to improve your inner game with women, follow these top 5 tips and you will build real, genuine self-confidence in ways that women will notice! Inner…
Inner Game: Recognizing Negative Thoughts
Anxiety with women, particularly with approaching women you’ve never met before, is the biggest challenge most men face when they are trying to improve their inner game. It can cause…
Getting Over a Broken Heart
In November, I went through a hard breakup with my former girlfriend that totally changed my life. After two and a half years of living with each other and always…
Anxiety with Women: Nature vs. Nurture
This article was written by my former client, Tony V. Enjoy. I want to talk about a topic that’s been beaten to death somewhat. But I feel I need to…
Self Esteem with Women and Reframing Limiting Beliefs
This article was written by my former client, Tony V. Enjoy. I’ve decided to talk about a topic that completely changed my self esteem with women when I first started…
Inner Game: What is it? Part 2
This article was written by my former client, Tony V. Enjoy. Most dating gurus advocate handling your approach anxiety and inner game by working on your outer game first. Dan…
Inner Game: What is it? Part 1
This article was written by my former client, Tony V. Enjoy. When I sat down to write this article for my good friend and dating coach Dan Silverman, the first…
Approach Dating The Right Way
So, how do we approach dating? Maybe you have been single for way too long or you just broke up from a long-term relationship and want to get back into…
Asking a Guy Out
Best ways for women to ask out a guy I was recently asked a question from a reader about asking a guy out. She wrote: “I was reading about your…
Inner Game: Reframing Limiting Beliefs
When you approach a beautiful woman and you feel anxiety, it doesn’t help to tell yourself that you are the prize and that you are a catch to women while…
Anxiety with Women: Why We Fear Approaching Women
Have you ever been to a club or a store, see a beautiful woman you’d like to meet, and feel an instant intense fear of approaching her? You’re not alone.…
Destroy Approach Anxiety
It can be pretty terrifying to approach a beautiful woman you haven’t met before and try to get a date with her. This fear can cause us to creep her…
Inner Coaching: Affirmations
Many people listen to affirmation tapes to improve their confidence and inner game. Inner coaching helps them incorporate powerful positive beliefs into their mind. An example of an affirmation is…
Invincible Inner Game: 3 Positive Mindsets of Confidence
Invincible inner game is achievable with the right mindsets. Most men have the wrong kind of mindsets. They say to themselves, œWomen find me unattractive, I’m afraid of bothering women…
Speed Dating Tips for Women
If you’ve ever thought about attending a speed dating event, let me give you some great speed dating tips for women before you decide to sign up for one. I…
Overcoming Shyness
Sometimes you just don’t feel like going out, or maybe most the time you feel this way, but you know you have to in order to overcome shyness. Force yourself…
Haters and Negative People
I’ll tell you, these past couple of months have been very hard for me. I notice that my life and business are seeing a lot more success, but at the…
Stop Overthinking
In the last dating seminar I hosted, I received a good question from a student. He asked, “Sometimes when I’m out meeting women, my mind goes a million miles an…
Understanding Men
After the last newsletter I sent answering a reader email, I received a ton of new questions. A whole bunch of those emails shared a similar question about understanding guys,…
How to Overcome Shyness with Men
I recently received an email from a reader and it was just one sentence! She asked: How do I not act shy around the guy I like? Actually, I get…
Speed Dating Tips For Men
If you’ve ever thought about attending a speed dating event, let me give you some great advice before you decide to sign up for one. I wrote a speed dating…
How To Control Your Fear Of Approaching Women
There she is sitting by the bar with two of her friends. She’s gorgeous. You really want to approach her and try to get her number. You’ve been doing so…
How Long To Wait To Have Sex With A Guy
It can be hard finding the right balance between when you should begin having sex or if you should wait longer. Especially with so many awful dating coaches and dating…
What To Talk About With A Guy
There is nothing sexier than a woman who knows how to hold a great conversation and genuinely connect with a man. Usually, you can let the man take the lead…
How To Get A Guy To Notice You
It can be hard to get a guy to notice you by approaching him at a party or work. Society tells us that women are not supposed to approach men…
How To Find Mr. Right
When women come to me for relationship advice on how to find Mr. Right, many times they say something along the lines of the following: Where are all the great…
Chick Logic
Before reading this, understand that most of my statements are generalizations and do not apply to all women. I hope this doesn’t anger the hundreds of women reading this, but…
Staying Motivated To Improve Socially
You’ve finally made up your mind to stay motivated, and you are now committed to doing anything it takes to get the social aspect of your life under your control.…
Why Men Stop Calling
Have you ever gone through a process where you are seeing a guy, but for some reason, he stops calling or doesn’t put anymore effort into progressing things with you?…
Emotionally Stimulating Conversation
Many of my clients ask me – How do I make a girl comfortable to see me? How do I convince a girl to meet up with me? How do…
Playing Hard to Get With A Man
If you have read The Rules, this article is especially for you. Intuitively, you understand that men need challenge in their lives, and the harder they work to get you,…
Staying Committed to Your Goals
You’ve finally made up your mind and you are now committed to doing anything it takes to get the social aspect of your life under your control. That’s great! In…
Why Nice Guys Finish Last
Yes, deep down inside, we all know nice guys finish last. The good news is that you don’t have to be a complete asshole to be successful with women either. …
What Women Really Want
Women want a man who is in control of himself and his reality. A man with no insecurities. A man who is comfortable in his own skin and in hers. …
Looking Your Best
This article was written by an ex girlfriend who was a brilliant fashion consultant for my business. I thought I would re-share it: “Clothes don’t make a man, but clothes…
Looks VS Personality
A woman’s looks are very important to men. It is easy to think that women are just the same. After all, women always say they want a good looking guy.…
The Top 4 Reasons Why Successful Women Fail at Dating
Have you noticed the trend that many successful women have a lot of trouble when it comes to finding a husband? Many try to enlist the help of a matchmaker…
How to Match.com (Part 2)
Part 2 of my “How to Match.com” videos. In this video, I focus more on Men’s online dating profiles.
Dating Coaching with Matt
Andrew sends his friend, Matt, for an interview that turns into a dating coaching session. Let’s see if I can help Matt through his obstacles and become more social.
Insights Into The Dating Coaching and Matchmaking Industry
This time, Andrew The Private Man interviews me in order to probe the secrets and differences between the genders in the matchmaking and dating coaching industry.
Where Are All The Older Single Men?
In this video, I interview Andrew The Private Man, a popular blogger in the South Florida area who mostly writes for post-divorce men in their 40s and 50s. I ask…
How To Match.com (Part 1)
New video on how to choose good profile pictures. This video is mostly for women but guys can learn something too.
Vlog: How To Make Eye Contact (Parody)
Yaidany teaches us how to make eye contact with women in the supermarket with help from the masters at Expert Village.
Women’s Matchmaking 3 Tips
Have you noticed the trend that many successful women have a lot of trouble when it comes to finding a husband? Many try to enlist the help of a matchmaker…
What to Do on Valentine’s Day
Were you wondering what to do for Valentine’s Day this year? Do you have a girlfriend or boyfriend you want to do something for or are you single wondering how…
Don’t Listen to Harmful Dating Advice
Don’t listen to harmful dating advice! Just because it’s written in a very popular magazine, your best friend, or mom who you trust with your life says it, doesn’t mean…
Do Looks Matter to Men
The short answer to “do looks matter to men” is yes. The average man will not court you unless he is physically attracted to you, no matter how amazing of…
How to Screen Men for Relationships
Many women have trouble screening men for relationships. Some unfortunate women date jerks, abusive, or loser guys their whole lives. Others just don’t know if the guy they are dating…
How to Plan a First Date
So you met a girl you really like, you asked her out on a date, and surprisingly, she said “yes”! Now what are you going to do? How will you…
Matchmaker Ft. Lauderdale
Matchmaking in Fort Lauderdale is far easier than matchmaking in miami. The people in Fort Lauderdale seem to be a lot less superficial and easygoing. Not to say the city…