Before reading this, understand that most of my statements are generalizations and do not apply to all women. I hope this doesn't anger the hundreds of women reading this, but someone's got to talk about it. This applies, for the most part, with younger, more immature women. However, I have met many older women who act this way. As I write this, I am listening to Chris Rock's HBO special. He said, You cannot beat a woman in an argument. It's impossible. You will not win! Because men, we are handicapped when it comes to arguing because we have a need to make sense. Women ain't gonna let a little thing like sense mess up their argument. Cause she's not in it for sense. She's in it for distance and irritation. Ah, chick logic. It doesn't make sense to us men. Women can be very emotional beings. A woman tends to think with her heart. Much of a girl's romantic decisions and actions are decided under the current emotional state she is in. After she makes a decision that is not in light with society's impossible standards for her, she rationalizes her actions afterwards to justify why she acted upon her emotions. In understanding female logic, this is why a woman may love you the night you meet her, but never calls you again. She felt very attracted to you that night, but the next day when she woke up, she was no longer in that emotional state. She probably feels very uncomfortable calling you because she doesn't feel like she knows you and it would be slutty of her to try and hook up with a club guy. Chick logic is also the reason why one day she may treat you like you're the king of the world, and the next day she may totally ignore you. She needs you to make her feel better. If you are trying to get a woman to agree with you or to comply with you, never try to logically convince her. Don't change her mind, change her mood. This is how to work with chick logic. When you are trying to figure out why a woman does something, always look to her emotions first. That's the key to understanding girl thinking. Here is a useful tip for you men who are in a relationship with a very emotional woman. When an emotional woman seems like she is angry at you for no logical reason, 95% of the time it's because she doesn't feel loved. Don't ask her why she is upset when she doesn't know or can't explain it. Assume she needs love and shower her with it. She'll change her mood eventually if you stay strong, and she will appreciate that you were man enough to remain emotionally strong. Don't shower her with love, however, if she is doing it just to get attention. If you do this you will be reinforcing the wrong kind of behavior. Another large factor in chick logic is her social conditioning. Social status is one of the most important determining factors in her willingness to hook up with you quickly. Many times, the opinion of a girl's peer group is more important than her own opinion. This is why it is so important to have social influence and win over a girl's friends if you met her at a night club. This is also why girls find rich and famous men so irresistible. They have high social status. According to chick logic, if they hook up with these men, it will raise their own social status. This is why popular guys and social guys are universally more attractive than introverted loners. This is also why it is so important to never put a girl on a pedestal. She needs to feel like she's dating a desirable man who is cooler or at least as cool as she is. A girl will never hook up with a guy that she perceives as lower on the social ladder than herself. That's why with chick logic, she will reject the perfect guy for her if her friends won't be impressed if she dates him. If you're looking to learn more about chick logic, or you tend to like dating immature women, I highly recommend you get
dating coaching from me. I'll help you understand what's going on inside the mind of an emotional woman or hopefully, get you to start dating more mature women.
Your Matchmaker and Dating Coach,
Dan Silverman
