Anxiety with Women: Nature vs. Nurture
This article was written by my former client, Tony V. Enjoy. I want to talk about a topic that’s been beaten to death somewhat. But I feel I need to get my point of view out there and shed some light on the topic of approach anxiety and anxiety with women in general. The most […]
Self Esteem with Women and Reframing Limiting Beliefs
This article was written by my former client, Tony V. Enjoy. I’ve decided to talk about a topic that completely changed my self esteem with women when I first started getting into this game. I think that when you break it down, our entire society, self esteem with women, and even our reality as a […]
Inner Game: What is it? Part 2
This article was written by my former client, Tony V. Enjoy. Most dating gurus advocate handling your approach anxiety and inner game by working on your outer game first. Dan Silverman refers to this as the “Outside-In Approach.” Gurus state that confidence will come by developing high competency in approaching women. Once you’ve done it […]
Inner Game: What is it? Part 1
This article was written by my former client, Tony V. Enjoy. When I sat down to write this article for my good friend and dating coach Dan Silverman, the first question I asked myself is, “What exactly is inner game?” Oh, sure, I’ve seen the term thrown around enough and I’m sure many people reading […]
Inner Game: Reframing Limiting Beliefs
When you approach a beautiful woman and you feel anxiety, it doesn’t help to tell yourself that you are the prize and that you are a catch to women while you grit your teeth and clench your fists in fear. If you don’t believe what you’re saying, you won’t ever improve. You can’t just cover […]
Anxiety with Women: Why We Fear Approaching Women
Have you ever been to a club or a store, see a beautiful woman you’d like to meet, and feel an instant intense fear of approaching her? You’re not alone. Anxiety with women you’d like to meet is the most common problem I come across with clients. This anxiety with women is also known as […]
Destroy Approach Anxiety
It can be pretty terrifying to approach a beautiful woman you haven’t met before and try to get a date with her. This fear can cause us to creep her out or worse, not approach her at all. You can learn all the fancy pick up lines and techniques you want, but what good is […]
Inner Coaching: Affirmations
Many people listen to affirmation tapes to improve their confidence and inner game. Inner coaching helps them incorporate powerful positive beliefs into their mind. An example of an affirmation is Women love it when I approach them or I am a prize and a catch to women. However, most people do not find success with […]
Invincible Inner Game: 3 Positive Mindsets of Confidence
Invincible inner game is achievable with the right mindsets. Most men have the wrong kind of mindsets. They say to themselves, œWomen find me unattractive, I’m afraid of bothering women if I approach them, or I take rejection personally. If you constantly say these things to yourself or worry about them, they become truer in […]
Overcoming Shyness
Sometimes you just don’t feel like going out, or maybe most the time you feel this way, but you know you have to in order to overcome shyness. Force yourself to go out. This paralyzing feeling is associated with years of negative conditioning. You may have spent your entire life feeling anxious as a reaction […]