There is nothing sexier than a woman who knows how to hold a great conversation and genuinely connect with a man. Usually, you can let the man take the lead in the beginning. Hopefully he is a great communicator. If he is, you’ll need to be able to keep up with him. Don’t stay quiet the whole time. You should always keep your body language open and keep eye contact. It’s important to let him know that you are receptive to him since he might think that you don’t like him and walk off. Sometimes shyness can come across as coldness or even snobbiness.  If you are looking around the place while he talks to you, checking your text messages, or answering calls while he talks to you, this is extremely rude. Give him the courtesy that you would expect of him. What to talk about with a guy in the beginning is anything with playful teasing. Teasing helps to make him laugh and build a bit of sexual tension. You can also talk about surface things such as some of the interesting things that happened to you or saw that day. Allow things to flow and don’t force conversation. If you have any interests that you share, you can talk about that as well. Also, beware of turning the conversation dry by exchanging facts about each other. That can come across as boring and kills attraction. Try to keep the conversation flow stimulating by relating your experiences or opinions on things rather than justifying facts or exchanging information like you’re at an interview. You can talk about the most random things as long as you’re having fun doing it. Don’t forget to add a bit of subliminal and explicit sexuality.Talking to men can seem like rocket science to some women. If you feel like you’re in that category, you should consider hiring me as your dating coach. Send me an email and let’s set up a day to start!

Your Matchmaker and Dating Coach,
Dan Silverman